Personal essays from John Paul Garland on responsibility, relationships, work, and building a deliberate life.https://blog.johngarland.net/en-ushttps://blog.johngarland.net/posts/make-it-safe-to-stay/https://blog.johngarland.net/posts/make-it-safe-to-stay/Vows and a contract — why I’d want a strong marriage contract next time.Tue, 18 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMTRelationshipsFaithCommitmentFamilyJohn Paul Garland